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Gay sex, where to start…
When I first started engaging in gay sex I had no idea what I was or what I was doing. Letās be real, who really does? Honestly, nobody does. From lube to dildos and douching to using Imodium before bottoming, there’s a lot to learn.
Am I a Top, a Bottom, and how exactly are we supposed to do this without making a āmessā if you will? Turns out Iām both. As for the āmess,ā most new gays are concerned about making, weāll get to that soon.
Iām Vers, short for versatile, as in I can perform as the giver(top) or receiver(Bottom). That being said, I do have a strong affiliation to Bottoming more often, just being real with you. Iām a proud vers/Bottom damn it.
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How do people know about their sex position?Ā
Ā In all honesty, though, my position preference really comes down to the chemistry I have with the guy. This can be said for a lot of people too. I always recommend experimenting a few times, with someone you feel comfortable with, to figure it out. Based on a guyās overall demeanor, and certainly his pheromones, I can immediately gauge which role Iāll be playing within minutes of meeting a man.Ā
I have to say, I enjoy not knowing someoneās preference and finding out for myself after Iāve established a connection with them. Whether that be a physical or emotional connection, it makes my sex drive almost kick into overtime. The thrill and intensity of the situation elevate to a whole new level that gets my curiosity sparked and my hormones pumped.
Being someone whoās versatile in gay sex just means I get to enjoy both ends (pun intended). Either Iām finding cute little muscle nuggets who enjoy being man-handled or Iām off burying my head into the armpit of a dominant ādaddyā type figure who instead manhandles me. No matter which direction the night takes me, Iām going to enjoy myself.Ā
Iām not one to brag often, but this I know is true, I not only enjoy being a top & Bottom, but Iām damn good at it too.Ā What can I say? I love sex.
In my many years of sexual endeavors, Iāve learned many tricks to help me perform at my best, and leave no mess (told you weād get there).Ā One trick, in particular, is Imodium.Ā Ā
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(PLEASE CONSULT WITH YOUR DOCTOR OR OTHER QUALIFIED HEALTHCARE PROVIDER BEFORE USING ANY PRODUCT DISCUSSED WITHIN THIS ARTICLE.)
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What is Imodium exactly:
Definition: Loperamide, sold under the brand name Imodium, among others, is a medication used to decrease the frequency of diarrhea. It is often used for this purpose in gastroenteritis, inflammatory bowel disease, and short bowel syndrome. It is not recommended for those with blood in the stool.
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Hereās how I discovered the magic of using Imodium before bottoming
When- This discovery happened around April/May 2016 while in attendance at White Party Palm Springs.Ā At the time, I was in a long-distance relationship, and this was our first weekend together. We both knew it was bound to be sex-filled and for this particular situation, I knew I would be Bottoming.
He had noticed I wasnāt eating much at all. After a couple of days of being together, he was concerned Iād get sick/dehydrated from all the dancing and late nights if I didnāt start to eat full meals. He asked why, so I explained my situation, that I wanted to be clean for Bottoming later.
He laughed and said, āhave you not learned about using Imodium before Bottoming?ā (obviously, I had not).Ā He proceeded to tell me how most gays (Bottoms more specifically) will prep for a night out, whether itās dancing or what have you, and use Imodium to prolong their Ģ ‘cleanliness periodā. That way they can be sexually active later on without having to clean out again if they canāt make it home for a quick clean-up.Ā
No more late-night #2s, no need to use the bathroom at a bar/restaurant, no more leaving the party early or midway to run back to the hotel room.
I swear itās like a lightbulb and fireworks went off in my head, ā OF COURSE!ā I thought to myself.Ā This is how people stay āreadyā for so long! It all made perfect sense. People have been using Imodium before Bottoming this whole time.
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Fast Forwarding through Summer into late Fall
After Summer 2016, I perfected the art of Imodium usage through many trial and error moments. Shortly after Halloween, I left Cincinnati and I made the big move from Ohio to California.Ā Funny enough, I found myself back in Palm Springs where it all began.Ā Ā
This, unfortunately, began many battles for me between trying to gain weight in Crossfit. I was not eating enough to make any difference in my size because I was constantly on the hunt for dick. I wanted to gain size while eating minimally, so I could Bottom all weekend long. This was quite the vicious cycle I found myself in.
Why- Ā So, I continued my habitual use of Imodium but eventually learned to not rely on it completely. You have to know when to give your body a break and just stop using it and let your body work naturally.
Besides, the overuse of Imodium can be damaging to your digestive tract and give you some major cramps and blockage, and nobody wants that. It can be uncomfortable, nauseating, and if bad enough, painful.
A break from being a hoe is sometimes necessary, so I learned to take some time off and let my body rest. My goal was to get bigger, so I prioritized and backed off the dick. I increased my diet and thus increased my size. I was still able to get laid fairly often with some moderate help from Imodium during my bulking season. Itās all about moderation and knowing when to take a break.
Too much of a good thing can be bad for you after all…
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Using Imodium Before Bottoming
How it works- Remember that Imodium is a drug and like any drug, it will affect everyone a little bit differently. The idea behind using Imodium before Bottoming is that it will slow down, or temporarily stop, your bowels from moving. This then lowers your risk of making a āmessā later on when you are Bottoming. Ah, yes, the dreaded āmessā.Ā
Alternatives to Using Imodium Before Bottoming
If using medicine isn’t quite what you’re looking for, be sure to check out “How to Prepare to Bottom” You should still be “preparing” to Bottom whether you’re using Imodium or not.
You will get the basic ‘How-To’ process for cleaning out before Bottoming. That article is more suited for those having sex in the more immediate future and may not need to prolong their “ready” stage into the night.Ā This article is for those who may not be having sex for hours after “preparing”.
These views expressed are my own experience and opinion and not meant to offer direct medical advice.Ā Please be sure to read the labels on the box, and consult with your doctor for any medical questions or concerns.Ā
“Like any good thing, practice makes perfect and I surely did not get my rhythm down on the first try.”
How I Learned to Use Imodium Before Bottoming
During my pre-Imodium stage of becoming a Bottom, I would be concerned all day with what I was eating or drinking if I had any plans of getting laid that night. Donāt get me wrong,Ā Iām still mindful of what I eat, but there is some flexibility when I use Imodium. Again, itās all about practice and learning what works best for your body.
Example scenario– Say I plan to leave to go out for the night at 11 pm. Iāll start at showering or ācleaning-outā at around 9 pm. For me, Iāll take one full tablet right at 9 when I begin my cleaning-out process.Ā From there, I will gauge how I see my night going.Ā
Say Iām in the long haul and may not get home till 2 or 3 in the AM and have sex around or after that time. To ensure my Imodium holds, I will take a half tablet around midnight just to make sure I stay clean and ready for whatever fun may come my way.
Again, I can not stress this enough, practice makes perfect and our bodies all react differently to medication. Please use this as more of a flexible guideline in helping you find your sweet spot with timing, should you choose to use Imodium.Ā
My suggestion from personal experience is to start with a half tablet and go from there. Track the foods you eat and also when you have bowel movements in relation to the time you took Imodium.Ā This will serve as your guide to better construct your own personal method for staying Bottom ready through the day or night.
Trust, Don’t Rely On
Things to be mindful of: Imodium is not a 100% guarantee that youāll stay perfectly clean, but yes it does help greatly.Ā Ā
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Things to watch out for: At times, it could so happen to be TOO helpful and then cause you some discomfort from being backed up, as previously mentioned.Ā Yes, when using Imodium you do run the risk of becoming constipated. This is why I said to make sure you read the directions and warning labels on the box and consult with your doctor on any questions you have.
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How to prevent this: As I said, go slow and time everything out. Try it out on a few nights when you know youāre staying in and laying low, get comfortable with this practice in the privacy of your own home before venturing out into the world.
Test the effectiveness of your “prep work” with some toys. Practice practice practice, and for the love of all things gay do not just take 3 tablets right off the start and hope for the best.
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Imodium Overload?
In the event that you find yourself a little backed up and full the next day or so, here are some tips to help reverse the effects of Imodium naturally.
- Water, lots of it
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- Exercise, cardio, in particular, to get your blood moving and heart rate up
- Coffee- why do you think gays love cold brew so much? š
- Energy Drinks, preferably ones with no sugar
- Work up a sweat in the sauna
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Ultimately itās your choice to use Imodium, or not, to help keep you āBottom readyā through the night or into the morning. Some gays have mastered the art of Imodium consumption and bowel regularity, while others may never need it. Remember we all operate differently. Itās important you learn what works best for you. In the end, itās you whoās going to be getting a dick up your ass š
Always be mindful of the foods you eat, liquids you drink, how long of a night/day youāre going to be having before sex, and always ALWAYS listen to your body.Ā
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The information I provided is not meant to treat or diagnose any medical conditions.Ā Please consult your primary doctor for all recommendations and questions that you may have before using Imodium.Ā The views and opinions here are based on my own personal experience and preference.
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